Self Actualisation

July 12, 2006


Always bear in mind, that your own resolution
to succeed is more important than any other

Abraham Lincoln

June 11, 2006

Food for thought

In the long run, we shape our lives, and we
shape ourselves. The process never ends until
we die. And the choices we make are ultimately
our responsibility.
Eleanor Roosevelt

June 10, 2006


You can have all the confidence in the world, but if you do not actively feel grateful for the fruits of your confidence, it will not bring you happiness. You can have immaculate health, but if you do not think about how wonderful that is, it will not bring you happiness. You can smile, build friendships, achieve success, win the lottery, or do whatever you desire, but if you are not saying every day, "Wow! This is wonderful. This is grand. I am the luckiest man (or woman) alive because of this," don't expect it to bring you happiness.

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June 09, 2006

Buiding your confidence

Did you know this single component "confidence" is what seperates people who are successful from people who are not? People who have confidence will take their dreams and make them come true because they will take immediate, massive, repeated action and will never quit until their dreams come true. No matter what your dream is, you can take that dream and turn it into a reality when you have the confidence that you can get out there and find people to help you do your dream and you can handle "No"'ll hear that word many times before you do your dream. Many people will say, "No". And having that confidence to overcome that is necessary...for every obstacle thrown in your path you will realize that you can go around it. Your dream is very possible when you have that ultimate belief in yourself and what you are doing.

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June 08, 2006

Food for thought

The fact is, that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can.

Unleash the inner me

I'm tired of being someone who everybody wants me to be.
Trapped and scared in my own insecurities.
I just wanna be free! Unleash the inner me.
Do you know how it feels to bewalking in someone else's shoes,and to be confined to whatever it is they do?
I know exactly how that feels deepinside, because my whole life has been a dark lie.
I'm too ashamed to show who I truly am.
The things they say it hurts me,because I'm not really me.
These empty spaces are killing me.
I just feel that I can't really be me!
People look at me in all of these strange ways.Makin' it hard to get through the day.
They talk and talk, but it seems that it's true.
Cuz I'm not me, but I'm tryna get through!I feel lonely when I'm in a crowd.
I feel silent when I'm so loud.These black holes in my soul, I just really can't condole.
I wanna be complete! Don't wanna be discrete with my lifestyle.
I wanna feel comfortable in my own skin.
I wanna feel that my life is not a sin!

June 07, 2006

Setting Your Goals For Success

Many people don't succeed without having specific goals. Over the years, I've noticed that there are some high achievers who have succeeded without setting goals at all but I must emphasise that setting your goals,writting them down and your commitment to it determines your success. I setting your goal, you have to be sure it's simple as in , it should be measurable or else you won't attain it.See it as achievable,realistic and make it time bound. But I want to let you know thatWhether or not you set goals, you need clarity and passion to be successful. I want to emphasize that those who have made it,having written their goals still had a clear vision of what they wanted to do in their lives. They were and are passionate about their work, they are constantly learning and growing in their field, they are willing to take risks, and they are committed to doing whatever it takes to keep moving forward. People who are vague and uncertain never attain long-term success.

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June 06, 2006

Great Men-Napoleon Hill

Napoleon Hill was born in poverty October 26, 1883 in a one room log cabin on Pound River in the mountains of Wise County in southwest Virginia. The year after his mother died, his father remarried and Napoleon's stepmother became his guiding light and inspiration. Napoleon was nine years old. Through the influence of his stepmother Hill became a newspaper reporter while still in his teens, supporting "local" news items in some dozen or more papers throughout the state. The originality of his style brought him to the attention of Robert L. Taylor, former Governor of Tennessee and owner of Bob Taylor's Magazine, who employed Hill to write "success stories" about famous men. A few of the numerous achievements of our Mastermind Alliance were: co-founding "Success Unlimited" magazine, co-authoring Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude, developing the "PMA Science of Success Course" and, most importantly, laying the foundation that guaranteed the achievement of Hill's Definite Major Purpose in Life. Hill's Definite Major Purpose was to spread the Philosophy of Achievement (the 17 Principles of Success) worldwide to this and future generations.

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June 05, 2006

Complementing each other

Remember the last time you were paid a sincere compliment? Remember how good it made you feel? Remember how you immediately wanted to do something in return for the person who complimented you?
Paying someone a sincere compliment is a great way to build a relationship or begin a conversation. It makes the other person feel important and acknowledges their uniqueness. We all need to feel this. We all like to hear complimentary comments to help reinforce our self image.
A compliment costs you nothing to give and can be the most rewarding gift you can give to another human being. A compliment must be sincere. People see right through false ones and ones without sincerity
Make a habit of freely offering sincere compliments to people you encounter. This is so important, especially in our hurried, harried and seemingly impersonal society. There will be times when the compliment a person receives from you, a total stranger, is the only nice comment they hear that day. You can make a persons day with a simple nicety, spoken with caring and sincerity.

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June 04, 2006

Effortless Abundance

Too often, we believe that hard work is the one and only way to achieve all our goals. However, we often end up working at cross purposes, because we sacrifice our happiness and inner desires for outer success. Effortless abundance is a self-actualization concept which focuses on attaining all that you desire through a "matching" of your inner inspirations with your outer actions. It focuses on high performance, in alignment with your core priorities and values. When you find a way of being that allows you to express who you really are, you will find that you attract all the good things in life with very little effort.

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